pain is a single dot
2023, september 21
message to a friend
you asked me why u. doesn’t hold grudges. how does she manage to let go of fights and hurt feelings? i think the difference between u. and people who do hold grudges is that she sees the fights and hurt feelings as single dots and doesn‘t connect the dots with a line. she can still feel and relate to the pain from each single dot, but she doesn‘t draw a line from one dot to the next and to the present.